Make contact with different religious communities.
Look for a community which will best accommodate
your hopes, desires, your personality, and your
talents.
Visiting different religious communities will
help you get a sense of where you fit in,
which community provides the type of community
life that supports you and aids you in your
journey of faith.
The next stage of discernment
is to make a decision which comes as a result
of your sharing, listening, and praying. Eventually
you feel ready to make a choice. It is important
to realize that you may never be absolutely certain
that God is calling you to a particular vocation.
It is an act of trust; trust in God’s love
and in the process of discernment; only then can
we make the best choice possible.